Remember this post from January 2011, where I shared our reasons for deciding to
relinquish Abel and Belle's 8 genetic siblings back into the NEDC's
anonymous adoption pool? Because we had a closed adoption, the NEDC
told me that they wouldn't be able to tell me what would become of their
siblings. While we knew this was the right decision, we were still
saddened that Abel and Belle would not know any of their genetic
siblings that may be born from the remaining 8 embryos. We chose not to
reserve them for future transfers because our adoption funds were
depleted. During our adoption process, I worked both a full-time and a
part-time job to help pay for our adoption expenses, but knowing that
our plan was for me to be a stay at home mom once the twins were born,
we knew we wouldn't be able to afford another transfer for a long while.
We didn't want their genetic siblings to be frozen any longer than
necessary.
Over the past few months, my heart began to ache at the
thought that Abel and Belle wouldn't know what became of their embie
siblings. I asked Aaron if I could contact the NEDC to find out if their
profile was still available, and if so, could we adopt them? He said
no, because financially, we just couldn't afford another transfer or
another child to raise on his current salary. So, I began to pray that
God would at least somehow let us know of what would become of the
remaining embryos. God answers prayer. Read Tracey's blog soon to find out
what a beautiful story God has written!
Here and Back
5 years ago
10 comments:
So awesome! I love this story! Can't wait to see what happens!
Wow Jennifer! So, so amazing!
This is amazing! It is definitely hard to let the genetic sibling(s) go. We had to make the decision to release the 1 additional embryo we had and it was very hard. I would love to know what happened to him/her. It is awesome how God answered your prayer!
Awe inspiring! God is awesome :)
God is so precious to meet our needs in ways that we can't even imagine. Thanking the Lord with you!!!!
Can't wait to hear what God is up to now. What precious gifts you both have been given. What else can our God do? Waiting on pins and needles...
I love our blogging EA community! xoxo
That is just amazing!! Definitely a God thing!
Just now seeing this post after your post earlier this morning... I was a little preoccupied when you posted this (Lucas was born the day before) so I missed it...
This is so, so awesome! Such a God story about how they came to be matched with those embryos. We have many God Stories in our adoption process, too.
In addition the the 4 embryos we have waiting for us to use in the future, Lucas has up to 13 other genetic siblings out there somewhere. Our adoption was anonymous but we are praying everyday for God to provide a way for us to connect with them one day. Maybe that's another God story in the making... :)
That is amazing how God brought you together! He is so good.
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